Happy Birthday, Mr. President.

Happy Birthday, Mr. President.


My former boss was born on this day in 1911. That’s two great things to come out of that year, the other being the Colt .45 automatic.

I am proud to say that I served under President Reagan. He was an inspiration to me in many ways. I always knew he’d send help if we got in trouble. No doubt in my military mind.

I miss him. I miss his leadership. I miss his sense of humor. I miss the belief that American exceptionalism is the rule, not the exception. I admire him for winning the Cold War and defeating a true evil, the Soviet Union.

This speech still gives me chills.

I served under two presidents. The other one was responsible, in large part, for the decline of the military after Vietnam. I was a miserable midshipman and a kid at that time. But I understood that being a terrible president had grave consequences for our nation. Sadly, it’s a lesson we’re going to have to learn again. But some of us remember.

On this day I ask that you pray for Nancy Reagan. She’s not in the best of health and I’m sure she misses her “Ronnie” to the point of physical pain. Ask God to bless her and keep her. She put in a lot of years taking care of Ronald Reagan after his Alzheimer’s was diagnosed.

We find few men of his character in this modern world. He was a Christian, a leader, and my hero.

Thank you, Mr. President. And I wish you a Happy Birthday, Sir.

Well, it’s all downhill now…

There are times in life when you should just quit while you’re ahead. I have now passed that point. I have discovered metal covers of ABBA tunes. If you grew up to ABBA and then hit college/the military in the 1980’s with the rise of metal you will no doubt love this stuff. The rest of you had best put in your Beyonce track and enjoy because this might become a regular feature here. Yeah, I’m that goofy. First up, At Vance:

Money, Money, Money as covered by At Vance

Guest post – Not a CO-incidence, a GOD-incidence! (updated, broken link)

I regularly get encouragement and stories from friends and associates. This one is from the esteemed Tracy Griffin, long time friend and fine person. I asked if she’d guest blog it for me. She kindly agreed. Please enjoy. –
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Last weekend I traveled to Atlanta on business and was routed through Chicago while all my colleagues all had non-stop flights. Strange, but I wasn’t too bothered by it. While walking up to my plane’s departure gate I noticed a woman sitting by herself with the big gold letters of “CHAPLAIN” on the back of her jacket. She was just sitting down to a meal so I quietly went up to her and, as you know us military families like to do, put a hand on her shoulder and thanked her for her service. She looked up at me with tears in her eyes so I asked where she was headed. “New Mexico” she answered. Her mentor Chaplain of over 20 years had just been murdered by his teenage son. The boy killed both parents and three of his sisters. http://www.foxnews.com/us/2013/01/21/teenage-gunman-kills-5-in-new-mexico-home-officials-say/

She asked if I would pray for her and I did immediately and then said farewell with a hug. When I turned to go she called me back and gave me her card (I know this was a sacrifice for her as she only had a couple left) and a copy of a book about Psalm 91 and its protection specifically for the military. When I got to my hotel I quickly looked up the story from New Mexico right away and read about the horror. She was going into that horrible situation to perform crisis intervention for the family and community. I prayed again and started an email to her where I shared with her my credentials in the areas of life coaching and grief therapy. She wrote back how that certainly was a surprise but agreed we met for a reason. She was surprised to hear this and then asked if I’d ever considered Chaplaincy. I hadn’t considered it but am now thinking of ways I can be involved in such a blessed ministry. I sense a true blessing in this meeting and that it was divine intervention for me to be routed through the Chicago airport. I mean, a little girl like me going through big old scary Chicago all on my own… there was a reason for all of it!

I ordered a case of the books to distribute to military families and friends of the same. While searching for the book’s title, I found this beautiful little video which sums it all up. The book she gave me: Psalm 91.

Who will you touch on the shoulder to thank them? Where will it take you? When God whispers, please take action.

Doesn’t that Taylor Swift cutout at Walgreens creep you out?

It does me. Just wanted to check and see if I’m alone in this response. I want to scream like a little girl every time I walk into Walgreens and that thing (Taylor Swift‘s cutout) is at the entrance. She’s a cute kid, nice voice, but the cutout is creepy.

Just saying.

Link to video

Dancing Queens and angst.

I actually have something deep to say here, but before I can spin out out you must induldge me. Everyone from my era will watch this video from ABBA and have an emotional reaction. Perhaps younger people will as well (other than, “Duh, Mom, you all looked like morons.”) Please watch this and then hop below the fold for the deeper ideas.


Link to ABBA Dancing Queen Video
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